What Happens When You Play

Welcome to What Happens When You Playa living library of transformation. Here, we share real stories and moments from the messy, magical, and deeply human journey of playing in the dark. You’ll witness what people were navigating, how we met it with creativity and courage, and the surprising ways it shifted. This is where the mystery unfolds.

Origin Story
Danielle Rifkin Danielle Rifkin

Origin Story

Truthfully, the origins of How to Play in the Dark have been unfolding throughout my life. My challenges of getting lost in the dark, the heaviness, the contraction and struggling to feel joy or light in those times DROVE ME. My inability to bypass or side step my pain BEGGED FOR ANSWERS. My self-consciousness and awkwardness in moments of play FUELED ME. My frozen and fawning parts that didn’t know how to take up space or express myself CRAVED SUPPORT. My curiosity and creativity were PLANTING POSSIBILITIES.

AND THEN… last summer there was a coalescing that happened like the best juicy epiphany you could imagine.

How a cat fight became part of my origin story!!!

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